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Understanding Black and White Thinking

Black and white thinking, also known as all-or-nothing thinking, is one of the most common forms of negative thinking patterns. It often arrives in the therapy room at some point. In reality, life is not easily pigeonholed into ‘good’ or ‘bad’, yet it is often the case that we try to place events, people and ourselves into one or the other of these slots.

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World Suicide Prevention Day

World Suicide Prevention Day is held on September 10th and aims to raise awareness around suicide. It’s a time when we can remind each other that no one should be left to face life’s struggles alone. Talking about suicide can feel uncomfortable and difficult, but having these challenging conversations can truly save lives.

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Domestic Abuse Against Men

When most people think of domestic abuse, they often imagine female victims. However, men can and do experience abuse in intimate relationships. Domestic abuse against men is more common than many realise, yet it is often hidden due to stigma, shame, or fear of not being believed. No one should suffer in silence. Recognising the signs, understanding the impact, and seeking support are vital steps towards safety and recovery.

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Understanding Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is a complex issue that causes pain to millions of people. This form of abuse affects people regardless of age, gender, race or social background.

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Feeling lonely?

Loneliness can come along at any moment during the course of a lifetime, and it is something many people experience. If you are experiencing loneliness right now, know that you are not alone, that more people than ever are reporting feeling isolated.

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Understanding Shame

If left unchallenged, both guilt and shame can affect self-esteem, relationships, and general mental health. The good news is that with the right support, it is possible to understand and move forward from feelings of shame, reclaiming your sense of worth.

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Understanding and Overcoming Guilt: A Guide to Healing and Growth

Guilt is one of the most common—and most complex—human emotions. At some point in life, everyone experiences it. Maybe you regret a decision, replay a conversation in your head, or carry a heavy sense of responsibility for something in the past. While guilt can sometimes serve as a helpful reminder to act with integrity, too much guilt can become overwhelming and damaging to your wellbeing.

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Understanding and coping with suicidal thoughts

Experiencing thoughts of suicide is a lot more commonplace than many people realise. Many people have these thoughts at some point in their lives, yet the subject remains taboo, and these thoughts are rarely spoken about openly. Suicidal thoughts can feel overwhelming, frightening, and isolating.

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Depression and Counselling: How Talking Therapy Can Help You Heal

It is a sad fact that depression is one of the most common mental health conditions worldwide. It is also often misunderstood. Counselling is not for the faint-hearted. Counselling can be tough.  People may feel worse before they feel better.  It is confronting and challenging and is one of the bravest, smartest, and strongest things anyone can do. 

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Counselling: A smart move for men

Life throws a lot at us. We can suffer from work-related stress, money worries, health issues, relationship problems…this list goes on.  No one is immune, yet we know that many men will suffer in silence. Counselling is a smart choice to make a change.

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Dealing with Anxiety

Anxiety is something many of us face.  It is part of our normal biological responses and is designed to keep us safe in challenging situations. If anxiety gets out of control, it starts to cause problems. How can you stop anxiety taking over your life?

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